About Me

If you’re smart, driven, and accomplished, but cannot seem to feel successful in love, I've got you.

I’ve been where you are.

Like most ambitious women, I spent my 20s securing scholarships to prestigious universities, climbing the corporate ladder to high-ranking positions, figuring out my finances, and moving from country to country, exploring the world. When I figured it was time to settle down in my early 30s, I found a guy, got engaged, planned a big destination wedding, and bought a joint home. Tick, tick, tick checklist – done.

Unfortunately, things weren’t good.

Beneath the glossy ‘Instagram perfect’ veneer, I felt anxious. I felt alone. I felt unsupported. And honestly, I felt scared.

I’d find myself waiting for him to show up for me, to do what I needed him to do — whether that was to commit to me more, or be there for me when I was in need. And after regular arguments that would trigger his defensiveness, I would feel invalidated, unseen, and unheard.

I began to work harder, longer hours, and lose myself in my work. He would disappear too, into sports, or his phone.

I eventually got us to try marital counseling. Yet in the counseling room, we were the perfect couple. Vulnerable and opening up. Our love seemed so strong in there, yet when we left the counselor's room, it was like nothing had happened. We would revert to our status quo. 

After months and spending thousands of dollars, it felt like we'd barely moved the needle.

I wondered:

Maybe my expectations were unreasonable? Was I being too fussy, too high-achieving? Maybe this was normal, and this was good enough, and I just needed to be grateful?

 Maybe I just needed to get over myself and soften into a more devotional feminine role? Was I too masculine? I earned more, after all…

Maybe I was just anxious and too type A?

Or maybe we just weren’t actually meant to be together? 

So I decided to dig deep and figure it out. I made it a priority. I invested resources, time, and money into getting clarity on where I was getting blocked in my relationship. I discovered my unconscious blocks, my wounds, and my core needs. I started taking radical responsibility over my part in the dysfunction.

And because I did the inner work, the healing, and found unwavering clarity on my true needs, I've created the happiest relationship imaginable ... where I feel seen, heard and respected every single day.

Through my own journey, I figured out how to solve this confusing and painful problem for myself and for others. Building off of my ICF Accredited training in Transformational Coaching, Integrated Attachment Theory training®, understanding of gender dynamics (University of Oxford M.St), and my professional experience in behavioural science, mindfulness teacher training, integrated attachment theory work, and personal learnings from endless therapy, coaching, and retreats…to help people like you.

If you’re interested in learning more, watch my free video training on the Behavioral Science of Attraction below.