About Me

I am the Founder of the science-based Successfully in Love® Method and a High-Performance Relationship Coach (University of Oxford M.St, ICF ACC IAT).

I’m also a Gender Dynamics Social Scientist, Mindfulness Teacher, NLP and Hypnotherapy coach, and an Integrated Attachment Theory™ certified coach. I am also Gottman Institute informed, having completed their couples work training.

I’ve been studying how to create healthy, secure, and flourishing relationships for over 15+ years.

Before becoming an internationally accredited Coach and integrated attachment theory practitioner, I was a Regional Vice President of a Global Behavioral Science firm, consulting Fortune 500 companies on creating high-performance workplace relationships.

I'm also a peer-reviewed academic in Masculinity, have a Masters with Distinction in Gender studies from the University of Oxford, and a DEI Certification from the University of Cambridge.

Yet, when I was 31, I found myself stuck in relationship limbo for years, feeling lonely, unsupported, and unsure about my future.

I spent years debating whether it was me or my relationship, whether my needs and wants were too much, and whether I should stay or go or if I was somehow messing up something perfectly good enough.

I also spent years in couples counselling feeling like we were making painstakingly slow progress, 10+ years in therapy going around in circles of endless talking, and I read basically every relationship resource out there on the internet trying to figure it all out.

In the end, it was because I discovered a lesser known branch of Relational Psychology called the Behavioral Science of Attraction that I was able to crack the code on finding long-term, true happiness in myself, and my relationship.

It gave me the direction that I needed to do the inner work on a deep level - much deeper than anything I’d done in talk therapy, and to get true clarity on my true needs. I also learned the art of real intimacy, communication, trust, and connection.

Now, I have the happiest marriage with my husband...where I feel deeply loved, safe, and chosen every single day.

On the back of my journey, and my frustration with the paucity of practical and proven resources out there, I created a comprehensive methodology, rooted in science, that’s helped 100s of high-performing men & women like you achieve the same - without the painful frustration, guesswork, and trial and error I had to go through.

So if you’re looking for clear, intelligent, and genuine support that’s rooted in proven behavioral science to help you become Successfully in Love® and have your best relationship yet - you’re in the right place.

If you are…

Feeling lonely and unsupported in your relationship…
Feeling like you’re putting in most of the effort, making the decisions, and having to pull the emotional labor…
Unsure about your future with your partner, worrying what it holds…
Walking on eggshells most of the time, afraid of triggering another fight, more conflict, more defensiveness….
Not wanting to do marriage counselling because you’re wary that your partner won’t want to go…and you really just want to find a solution that you can do solo to fix the situation for the better….
Then watch the 20 minute video below to discover a prove 3-phase process, based on The Behavioral Science of Attraction to help you get more freedom, fulfilment, connection, trust, and intimacy - starting today.

free video on my methodology here

University of Oxford M.St
University of Nottingham BA Hons
University of Cambridge DEI Cert.
Former Regional Vice President of global behavioral science consultancy
Masculinity Studies Peer-Reviewed Academic
Transformational Coach ICF ACC
NLP Practitioner & Coach
EFT Practitioner
IFS Informed
Integrated Attachment Theory™ Practitioner
Founder of the Behavioural Science of Attraction based methodology, Successfully in Love®
Exited co-founder of luxury drinks wholesaler

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I am truly grateful for Katarina’s coaching which has been immensely valuable in reigniting my curiosity, breaking through burnout, and rekindling my sense of purpose. Her expertise and guidance in connecting the mind and body have been instrumental in my personal and professional growth. Her unique approach has helped me gain a deeper understanding of my desires and motivations, enabling me to overcome feelings of despair and reconnect with the passion that led me to my line of work.

Isaac Esparza, Co-Founder, Healthier Hens
Katarina is an exceptional guide on the path to organizational health and development. Her unwavering commitment to wellbeing and DEI is truly remarkable. She skillfully navigates complex challenges, providing invaluable insights and practical strategies designed to drive positive change. Her empathetic approach creates a safe space for open dialogue and nurturing a culture of inclusivity and understanding. Her passion is contagious making her an incredible asset to any individual or organization seeking holistic growth.

Kathryn Payne, VP Learning & Development, Pax8
Working with Katarina has been a transformative experience even when I’ve had a few sessions with her. With her guidance, I've started to navigate a career change with actionable tasks after each session I’m able to reflect and be proactive in the steps I take to my next goal. Her support and expertise have been invaluable. Thank you for helping me in my life, not only coaching but true to the heart care and support.

Sahvanna Kochetkova, Lead UX Researcher
I’ve found the dating scene challenging as a middle aged man. Katarina has helped me navigate the dating apps, but more importantly helped to explore my relationship style, to help me understand how to build trust, rapport, and familiarity with the women that I'm dating. Katarina has a natural intuition and is skilled in how she asks questions to really push me to reflect on how my behaviours have influenced my personal development and the development of my relationships. Her work with me has helped me change my approach and improve my success in the dating world. She is a talented, smart coach and cannot recommend her highly enough.

Mike Rodenburgh, Investor & Executive VP, Ipsos
Katarina has been an absolute game-changer in my life. I was left reeling after a painful breakup that called into question everything I thought I knew about myself and my needs. She was the steady hand that guided me through those turbulent waters. Her empathy, wisdom, and unwavering support not only helped me heal but also helped me rediscover my true self. What's remarkable is that this journey didn't just impact my personal life—it spilled over into my professional life. With a newfound sense of self-assurance and a clearer understanding of what truly matters to me, I've not only learned to focus on my personal needs but have also become a more focused and productive entrepreneur. Katarina isn't just a relationship coach; she's a catalyst for personal and professional growth.

Supriya Bansal, Co-founder & Director of Research and Partnerships
I can sincerely say that Katarina’s exceptional creative problem-solving skill set and focus on client needs sets her apart. From the outset, what really drew me to Katarina was her candour and authenticity. Her genuine interest in understanding clients' needs and ability to create meaningful relationships fosters a connection that is hard to come by. She always seemed to have a fresh perspective or innovative approach to tackle the toughest challenges. She meets challenges head-on and often turns potential problems into new opportunities.

Rebecca Lee, Sr. Mgr. of Performance, Strategy & Enablement, ATB Financial
Katarina is a truly brilliant and compassionate coach. She has helped me to navigate a key decision about my career and given me confidence in my decision making and increased my wellbeing. I’m so grateful to her for helping me to find clarity and guiding me to trust my instinct and gut feeling. Thank you so much Katarina!

Giselle Kennedy, Communications Manager
I think Kat’s support was the biggest and ongoing help. I felt that I could count on her, that she’d be there to help me help myself. That provided the needed assurance and safety in a stressful time. I was pleasantly surprised how ‘human’ the sessions felt – they could be structured and highly organized if needed, but also informal should that be more appropriate. I found such flexibility and her agility in adapting to what I would bring to each session refreshing and useful for our work together.

Lukas Jasiunas, Founder & Co-Founder, escorbio & Healthier Hens
Katarina has never settled and she will never let her clients settle either. Determined to create a life of authentic happiness both for herself and others, she will challenge you, guide you, and build you up into becoming your own greatest ally and advisor as you build the life you seek.

Scott Friedman, Global Speaking Fellow, Friedman Associates
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Allan & Barbara Pease, Authors, Pease International
Katarina’s executive coaching has helped me greatly in developing and maintaining a healthier lifestyle, and improving the quality and enjoyment of my investment and philanthropic work. I have practised meditation for 20 years, and find Katarina’s coaching very effective in integrating mindfulness with her other methods. I would highly recommend Katarina.

Luke Ding, Investor, Philanthropist