Are you a guy who LOVES his work and happily does 12+ hour days, and often disappears into your emails and deals after dinner?

But it’s okay because your wife doesn’t mind (she’s on the couch scrolling anyway) and you’re gunning for the big $$$ to bring home?

Well, you might want to take a closer look at your marriage before you declare everything to be fine and slink back to your office.

Because I am telling you now, I have yet to meet a woman who can honestly say she is happy with her husband working 12+ hour days daily long term.

If your partner rarely looks up when you come home, scrolling through Instagram on their phone on the couch, and you find yourself sitting in silence most evenings doing ‘your own thing’...

…So more often than not, your evenings are spent doing more work emails because it’s easier than sitting with the ache of feeling unseen…

Then you've got to start getting really honest with yourself about what your future looks like and what the heck you’re going to do about it.

Specifically, is this what you want the second half of your life to look like - and if not, what DO you want it to look like?

First of all - I get it.

You want to break to that next level.

The next promotion.

The next income bracket.

A new client of mine asked me recently, how it is that I’m a relationship coach but can also help him with increasing his income - and helping him figure out what’s next in his career?

In fact, I know that what I will help him with will improve his overall life outcomes - including his health, too.

Here’s why.

My husband and I had a disagreement last week.

He was feeling sick with the flu (which I had had a few days prior) and it was bad. He had blocked sinuses, was coughing up his lungs every few minutes, and feeling exhausted.

All around awfulness and a lot of fatigue.

He told me that he was feeling bad and that he had to be careful for it not to get worse, because he had a history of sicknesses snowballing into worse symptoms when they dragged on.

Ever wondered why it seems like some folks can go on to make their millions with relative ease, have a delicious love-filled marriage, and look like a beacon of excellent health…

…whilst you seem to be tired, frustrated, and keep hitting a plateau? Like you can’t seem to break through to the next level?

Well, I’m willing to bet you have an internal block problem :)

When you feel a bit unfulfilled with your marriage, your career, or both - the reason is often that you’re not getting what you really NEED in those parts of your life.

And that’s because you don’t KNOW what you really need, because you’re disconnected from your needs. You’ve ignored them for years most likely.

It’s a very common thing for successful, ambitious professionals to do.

When you find yourself in a seemingly endless loop of arguing with your partner, where every conversation seems to end in tension and tears, it might SEEM like you have a communication problem.

But you don’t ;)

Logically, yes, you are struggling to communicate.

But thing is, studying communication best practices like active listening and embarking on learning about ‘love languages’ is NOT going to help you.

You’ve been incredibly successful in your career: you’ve got a beautiful home, car, wealth and luxuries. But your marriage feels like it’s basically over.

Evenings are spent sitting on the couch across from each other scrolling on social media.

You feel ignored, like you don’t matter, like they don’t care anymore.

When you feel like everyone relies on you, but you can’t lean on anyone

And you’re tired, emotionally drained, and feeling misunderstood because it’s lonely at the top…

The REASON why you feel this way is because you have a hidden fear of failure.

Ambitious professionals create SO much of their own suffering.

It's not usually intentional - it's just how they're wired from a young age based on messages they received from parents and other authority figures.

Feeling overwhelmed, burned out, and disconnected from spouse and family, is often caused by an over-drive to achieve which is caused by deep-seated feelings of never being "good enough".

With 2025 here, and now that you’re rested and at least somewhat revived after the busy-ness of 2024…

Are you feeling ready and antsy to change your last year’s pattern of grinding away each day, staying stuck in one room behind your laptop, on back to back Zoom calls and guzzling coffee, coffee, coffee, water, water…

….and then wine, wine, wine?

Are you finding Christmas shopping and being surrounded by all that Christmas cheer quite…confusing?

Because YOU’RE not feeling festive - in fact, you’re actually feeling a bit overwhelmed, exhausted, and lonely throughout it all…?

And your partner seems to be elsewhere entirely, whilst you’re feeling emotionally neglected and tired from having to do it all? Powerless to change it?

Ever felt a bit resentful of your partner?

Like you’ve worked extremely hard all year and now you’re feeling burned out and emotionally neglected in the run up to Christmas because your partner hasn’t worked HALF as hard as you…

…and don’t seem to get how you’re feeling or what you need?