How to level up your relationship and become Successfully in Love® in 90 days

And you do NOT have to drag your partner to couples counselling (which racks up to $8,400+ per year), spend every day in therapy, nor add more hours to your day.

You CAN transform your feelings of disappointment, exhaustion, feeling alone, unsupported, and often haunted by that nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach that something isn’t quite right.

And you CAN get rid of that sense that something is off, whether it’s with you, or the connection you two have, or your partner…

You can eliminate that doubt that maybe you chose the wrong person after all, maybe you ignored the red flags at the start, maybe you’ve changed, maybe you’re asking for too much…

You really can.

Because you know you’re not feeling 100% sure about your relationship and it’s frustrating you. In fact, it’s giving you anxiety. And you’re not sure that you can keep avoiding the issue and burying yourself into your work because…well, when you’re not able to sleep at night, blinking into the dark at 3am wondering ‘what do I do?’ it’s clearly not something you can ignore.

My friend, you can change this.

You can overcome this.

You do NOT have to spend the rest of your life in this limbo, in this state of slight disappointment. You can reignite the love and connection you once had.

In as fast as 90 days, truly.

In fact, you can do even more.

In just 90 days with a couple of hours a week in total (20-30 minutes a day max), you can get to the point where you're feeling amazing about yourself. About your life, and about your relationship.

Confident in who you are, what you’re doing, and where you’re going.

Coming home to your partner with a spring in your step each day, your mind clear, joy in your heart, and excited to start your evening.

Feeling securely attached, clear, and grounded. Calm - you’re not triggered anymore, you’re not overthinking things or ruminating anymore. Your mind is blissfully clear.

You feel so sure of yourself and your thoughts and feelings, that you trust you’re able to make the right decision from you from a place of solid, wise discernment with your best interests (and your childrens) at heart.

And you’re feeling fulfilled in your day to day: happy, joyful, and full of energy.

You know precisely what you need and want, and you’re able to get that. The love, the affection, the conscious conversations, the sense of safety, trust, and feeling connected - you have all of that in abundance.

Your mind is free from overthinking, ruminating, and anxiety.

In fact, you don’t even remember feeling anxious after 90 days!

Triggers, intense stress, anger, overwhelm…all these unpleasant emotions are something that you can manage now and feel totally on top of. You know how to handle life’s challenges (which can still happen) in a way that feels empowered, strong, and calm.

You’re happy every single day, and your needs are getting met. You don’t even remember what it feels like to be wanting more.

Because now you’re feeling successfully in love - with yourself, with your life, and with your relationship.

My friends, this is totally doable.

And the best thing is, it does NOT require you to drag your partner to marriage counseling or for you to do years in therapy.

All of this is fast and efficient when you know how to work with the subconscious mind and recondition it with the right tools to get you to a place where you’re securely attached and able to see your reality clearly - and operate from there.

Because that’s really what you need to do to transform your relationship.

Become securely attached by taking radical responsibility for YOUR side of the street and what YOU are bringing to the relationship, clear that out, and then see the relationship from that vantage point.

In doing that work, on a deep level, you’re overcoming and replacing the parts of you that are self-sabotaging, seeing the negative in the relationship, getting you in your own way, and making you feel triggered, act out, criticise, and feel anxious with your relationship.

All of this stuff is hurting your relationship and ultimately stuff you’re in control of.

It’s stuff you can eradicate - pretty quickly.

And once you’ve cleared out THIS stuff, you can then see the relationship MUCH more clearly.

Plus at that point, your partner is going to be receiving a totally different version of you:

Your BEST version of you

The confident, calm, centred, loving and wise version of you - the one that inspires them to step up and do the work.

Because before you throw the towel in in a triggered rage, and before you make things worse in your relationship by checking out even further, feeling despondent and over it, you will want to take stock of what YOU are bringing to the table first. It is imperative that you do your OWN inner work first to clear out the junk that might be blocking you before you make any decisions from a wounded, triggered place.

And the best thing is, by doing this inner work, you actually transform your own happiness and relationship with yourself for the better (exponentially) which levels up every other area of your life - from your capacity to make money, have a career you adore, have a healthy body, and relationship with your kids.

You can do all of this in as fast as 90 days when you have the right roadmap ahead on what to do.

Which is precisely what I am passionate about providing busy career driven professionals like yourself with.

In my Successfully in Love® methodology, designed exclusively for folks like you, we cover the 3 core phases that you have to go through to do this- and ultimately fix your relationship.

  1. Liberation - we have to liberate you from your unconscious blocks, self sabotage, patterns, and other blind spots. You can do this once and for all.

  2. Behavioral Science - you have to identify clearly, once you’ve cleared the blocks, what it is that you need to be happy long term. You can only do this after step 1, and this requires going to a deep level you may have never gone before. You also want to learn the behavioral science of having a happy and healthy relationship so that you have a manual on how to go forward.

  3. Integrity - this is where we pull it all together into an integrated, coherent strategy for you that aligns with who you are, what you need, and where you want to go. You must learn communication skills to communicate this ‘new you’ to your partner and peers, and ultimately step into your new secure identity.

Once you’ve done all of this, which you can do in 90 days with me, you can reclaim your inherent power, freedom, and happiness that is already within you - it’s just been blocked by decades of negative conditioning. And from this place, you can watch your relationship totally transform.

If this resonates with you, get in touch and I’ll be glad to share with you how I can help you.

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