You’ve mastered your work life. You’ve built structure, predictability, control.

You’ve got your money, your home, your set up -

Buuuuut your love life doesn’t seem to be as straightforward.

Maybe you’ve found yourself in relationships where you felt smothered, drained, or suffocated - despite loving the person.

Maybe you’re now married to them and find yourself really enjoying your space, or sleeping in separate beds (because you work long hours, right? ;) )

Or maybe you’ve been the one doing all the chasing, showing up more, doing more, giving them more …and essentially constantly trying to prove you’re enough for someone who never quite met you halfway. Yikes.

Or maybe you’ve felt generally fine - until intimacy started to deepen… and then you pulled away. And now you’re in a committed relationship, and you find yourself moving between wanting to be with them and feeling good, and then wanting to burn things down to the ground and get away from it all.

My friends, this is not random, nor is it just your “bad luck” - or something you can’t control.