“I don’t have time to look at my relationship” - Why the myth of ‘not having enough time’ is a dangerous one.
You’re a busy professional. You work long hours, put in the time, and work HARD.
I get it. That’s why you’re so successful.
(And even if you don’t feel so successful, my hunch is you’re up there in the top few % - most successful folks don’t realize how successful they are)
So you’re probably thinking:
I don’t have time to focus on my relationships.
You’re probably thinking:
“This is going to take up a lot of my time.”
“I don’t have time for this”
“I will do this later once I finish …x y z”
And I hear you.
I would think the same thing.
If you’re anything like most people you have focused on your professional life - and your love life has always been a bit confusing and vague.
A mythic, romantic, enigma.
You’ve tried to understand it.
You’ve done some therapy or counseling, read blogs, listened to podcasts, and whatever other things you’ve done to try to heal your relationships.
It can feel chaotic and stressful to be honest.
A bit all over the place.
But what if I told you that the reason it feels like you don’t have time, is because you’ve been approaching relationships all wrong.
You’ve been approaching it with the scattergun approach…doing bits of this, bits of that, trying random things.
Which is EXHAUSTING.
And takes up a lot of time.
So I get it.
And because you haven’t focused on it, your brain has just accumulated all the information haphazardly and none of it has really stuck into anything that makes tangible sense.
And because you haven’t prioritized relationships, you’ve probably forgotten a lot of the info already.
It’s muddied, murky, unstructured, vague amorphous mass
And so because it’s all over the place, it feels overwhelming
And the idea of tackling it and learning it feels like too much.
So of course, you don’t have time.
Because your brain likes structure, logic, order.
And as a result, you’ve put off learning about relationships
What if I told you it doesn't have to be this confusing and chaotic?
There is a new way
A 3 phase methodology with a clear, 12 stage linear process
I’ve taken ALL the therapy, training, learning, personal experience in marital coaching, calling off my first engagement, training in integrated attachment theory, and every modality out there - and…
Digested, synthesized, and implemented, these 15 years of learning into a coherent system.
Into a chronological order that makes sense.
Systematic and smart
I have clients tell me that this is a game changer, the most clear and systematic way to learn about relationships out there.
They’re getting results faster through this program than they could ever imagine in therapy, or other interventions.
They’re finding their life partners within months.
They’re healing their patterns, self-sabotage, and triggers within weeks.
This is powerful stuff - and I used this program to meet my own husband in just 11 months after calling off my first engagement. That’s how I came up with it!
When you start healing your relationships, you start to really master the Behavioral Science of Attraction.
And when you master this skill, you master the most important skills you need in your life - to learn WHAT you are attracting and HOW to attract what you want.
You can do this.
If this resonates with you, apply for a call with me here.
