Why pushing for more money & promotions in your career is pointless - and won’t fix what’s actually holding you back
First of all - I get it.
You want to break to that next level.
The next promotion.
The next income bracket.
The next milestone that will help you feel like you’ve “made it.”
Once you break through this ceiling, you’ll finaaaallly feel more that much more secure.
More respected.
More in control.
Which makes sense, sure...
Because you’ll have more money, more status, and life will be more interesting and rewarding because you’ll have more fun and more time with your partner and kids and all the good things -
I get it.
Sooo…. you work late. Loooonng days.
12 hour days.
You’re always ‘on’.
But you love the work so it’s not reeaaaaaally work right?!
(You tell yourself 😉 )
And your wife is used to it by now!
Working after dinner, heading back to your office, doing a bit on the weekends.
She doesn’t complain.
(Anymore)
She accept thats this is just how you are…a man on a mission.
(Though deep down you know that your connection could be better and you're a bit too scared to see if she is ACTUALLY really happy because you can't imagine breaking up so you tell yourself it's fine = she seems fine)
Yet for all the long hours and late nights, you’re leveling up slower than you thought.
And honestly you’re a bit tired.
You love your work but you know yourself that things could be better.
The adrenaline of the big win fades faster than it used to.
Your team are getting a bit annoying and managing them isn’t as fun anymore.
And of course, irrespective of how good you’ve got it, there’s always another level you can reach.
Thing is…
You can keep forcing and pushing for that ‘next ceiling’ forever.
But it’ll keep feeling like a slog, the further up you go.
Because the real ceiling isn’t in the next strategy, or promotion, or figuring out how to increase your income.
Yes, you can achieve all of these things -
But it doesn’t actually have to take long or be a struggle.
Because the real ceiling is in your mind.
Now, like most people, you’ve spent your whole life believing that working harder is the answer to everything.
But at a certain point, grinding harder doesn’t work.
You will (and maybe have) hit a wall.
Not because you’re not capable - but because you’re carrying invisible emotional and mental baggage that is slowing you down.
These hidden barriers aren’t business problems.
They are actually ***drum roll*** relationship problems.
And I don't mean with your wife.
I mean your relationship with yourself.
You don’t realize it yet but you have invisible mental and emotional blocks that are holding you back professionally.
And if you tell yourself that once you’ve got that income and title, everything will fall into place.
...It won’t.
Because until you clear these hidden blocks - more specifically, these subconscious blocks - that are running your life, you will keep hitting the same ceilings over and over again.
See, like most smart and successful people, your mind has a glass ceiling.
And like most smart and successful people, unless you’ve already done a ton of subconscious mind work and worked extensively with a coach, I am willing to bet you are stuck under it.
The solution is never to work harder.
The solution is to actually remove the invisible weight that’s keeping you from rising.
You need to clear these subconscious beliefs, fears, and emotional blocks that are making success feel harder than it needs to, and so that you can ease into a more effortless state of growth, wealth, abundance, connection, intimacy, and …well, happiness.
Because there absolutely is within you:
😩 A part of you that doesn’t feel worthy unless you’re achieving.
A part of you that’s afraid to slow down because you fear you’ll get left behind, and in the shame, realize how disconnected you’ve become.
😐 A part of you that mistakes emotional suppression for mental toughness.
The reality is you have these internal blocks (which, by the way, have been there since childhood)
And until you clear these blocks, everything in life will feel that much harder.
You are quite literally blocking yourself.
Yet the moment you clear these blocks, everything shifts.
You communicate differently. More clearly, compellingly.
You stop second-guessing yourself. You trust yourself, you feel deeply centred and calm all the time.
You feel more certain, more at ease, more magnetic.
You feel more connected, more excited.
And suddenly, opportunities flow.
The next level becomes inevitable.
Money, influence, and success come to you - without the exhausting grind.
And of course, your intimate life also improves - because YOU are more intimate with YOUrself.
That’s where it all starts.
So - yeah, you’re successful because you’ve mastered external strategies.
But now it’s time to master internal alignment.
This is exactly what I teach in my Successfully in Love® with Life Method.
I show you how to remove the hidden blocks that are keeping you from your next level - both in your career and your relationship - with yourself, and with your partner.
Here’s what we do together:
Identify the hidden subconscious patterns that are keeping you stuck in a cycle of forcing your success and internal disconnection.
Clear the internal resistance that makes success feel like more of a struggle than it needs to be.
Rebuild trust, clarity, and confidence in yourself - so you can move easefully in your career and your relationship.
Because when you are aligned, success stops being something you chase.
It becomes something you attract.
That’s why this is called the Behavioral Science of Attraction!
If this resonates, I explain exactly how this works in my free video.
➡ Watch it here: www.successfullyinlovewithlife.com
I can work with you for a 3 month super intensive, 6 months, or 12 months to really transform your whole reality and level you up to your greatest potential.
I am willing to bet that this is the most important career move you will ever make.
